Dr. Dennis Neder
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Men and “The Hunt” Explained
I get lots of letters about all sorts of dating, sex and relationship problems every day. It’s interesting that they so often fall into clearly defined categories. One of the most common comes from women that follow various prescribed paths only to find that they prevent or destroy their relationships. The majority of these paths seem to come from what I call “mass-think". More specifically, these are ideas... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 92 days ago.)
I get lots of letters about all sorts of dating, sex and relationship problems every day. It’s interesting that they so often fall into clearly defined categories. One of the most common comes from women that follow various prescribed paths only to find that they prevent or destroy their relationships. The majority of these paths seem to come from what I call “mass-think". More specifically, these are ideas... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 92 days ago.)
Am I in the Friend Zone?
Doc: I met this girl about 2 months ago in a college class. She actually seemed to show interest in me. I don’t know what her intentions were. She began by smiling at me in the library one day. Then she started to sit next to me sometimes and would make conversation with me in the halls. As soon as she came into class, she would look back at me and do give this shy smile (which was rather strange, because she’s... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 162 days ago.)
Doc: I met this girl about 2 months ago in a college class. She actually seemed to show interest in me. I don’t know what her intentions were. She began by smiling at me in the library one day. Then she started to sit next to me sometimes and would make conversation with me in the halls. As soon as she came into class, she would look back at me and do give this shy smile (which was rather strange, because she’s... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 162 days ago.)
Overcoming Self-Consciousness
Dear Dr. Neder, I have a social issue. Ever since I was a kid, I wasalways very friendly, outgoing, sociable, charming, positive, and likable. Inaddition, I was never shy, but as I approached my teens, I became reclusive andreserved. It was also at that time when my self-esteem severely affected mysocial life, particularly where women were concerned. This is about how I see myself and how other people seeme. Years ago, I... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 190 days ago.)
Dear Dr. Neder, I have a social issue. Ever since I was a kid, I wasalways very friendly, outgoing, sociable, charming, positive, and likable. Inaddition, I was never shy, but as I approached my teens, I became reclusive andreserved. It was also at that time when my self-esteem severely affected mysocial life, particularly where women were concerned. This is about how I see myself and how other people seeme. Years ago, I... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 190 days ago.)
How Texting Killed the Dating Beast
Dr. Neder, Im 35 and started dating after a year-long hiatus earlier this year. Ive gone out with a couple of guys so far, all of them younger. Ive noticed that they LOVE texting, but rarely ask me out. The latest guy is 29, and we went on our first date last Friday. We had a great time (mini golf and dinner - and he was funny and sweet). Since then we have not talked, but we text almost every day. Its usually... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 204 days ago.)
Dr. Neder, Im 35 and started dating after a year-long hiatus earlier this year. Ive gone out with a couple of guys so far, all of them younger. Ive noticed that they LOVE texting, but rarely ask me out. The latest guy is 29, and we went on our first date last Friday. We had a great time (mini golf and dinner - and he was funny and sweet). Since then we have not talked, but we text almost every day. Its usually... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 204 days ago.)
Dumb Games – and the Girls That Play Them
Doc: I have a question about girls that play hard to get". I know you tell guys (and girls) not to play this game, but Ive read other articles that say that girls should do this. Whats your take on that? Thanks! ======================== Hello! The "other side" is bullshit. Here's why: 1) What's the difference between some girl that plays these games and a girl that is simply not interested... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 246 days ago.)
Doc: I have a question about girls that play hard to get". I know you tell guys (and girls) not to play this game, but Ive read other articles that say that girls should do this. Whats your take on that? Thanks! ======================== Hello! The "other side" is bullshit. Here's why: 1) What's the difference between some girl that plays these games and a girl that is simply not interested... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 246 days ago.)
“Mentally Managing” Wife’s Celibacy
Dr. Neder: How can I mentally-manage my wife's choice of celibacy? ============================== Hello! I don't know what you mean by "mentally manage celibacy", but frankly, that's not the issue at all anyway! Your wife doesn't have the right to be celibate! If she wanted celibacy, she should have never married you! If she needs celibacy for some medical reason (and it's temporary) that's one... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 337 days ago.)
Dr. Neder: How can I mentally-manage my wife's choice of celibacy? ============================== Hello! I don't know what you mean by "mentally manage celibacy", but frankly, that's not the issue at all anyway! Your wife doesn't have the right to be celibate! If she wanted celibacy, she should have never married you! If she needs celibacy for some medical reason (and it's temporary) that's one... (posted by Dr. Dennis 1 year 337 days ago.)
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